BDSM Daddy Doms and Dommes
collar-me-daddy:

My Daddy wrote this. I’m the happiest Little in the world. ❤️

collar-me-daddy:

My Daddy wrote this.
I’m the happiest Little in the world. ❤️

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When he tells you…my arms will always be your home.
— goodgirl4him

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Dom Drop, Depression, and Weakness

A worthy question to other Doms who may be able to assist…

prometheuscurse:

So here I am. I’m 40, im a Dom with loving submissives in RL and SL, I have a wonderful life.

I am also severely depressed atm.

It started a few weeks ago over what i’m not exactly sure. I’m on meds for mild depression, I have been since my blindness hit 6 years ago. I went through 3 drugs before we got it right … the first two were too strong  and left me feeling like a zombie then we got me on the right one. After my surgeries had cleared I went off of them, but had to start back up again 3 years ago. minor depressions have happened on occasion .. like when the only sub I have had from SL and took to RL left me.rethinking that …hat was more like this really not a medium drop at all, but I knew the cause and got through it eventually.

This … I am not sure whats wrong. I have a wonderful RL. though we don’t scene often it does happen and she respects me and loves me, I have my SL girls and they please me very much. I guess  .. you know it isn’t even the why, or what will I do that scares me … i’m making an appointment to check, maybe up my meds or change them … no its fear that they will see it as weakness.

its the truth isnt it? a Dom is supposed to be the rock, the foundation, the strong one of the group .. .especially to a baby girl .. and my RL is a baby girl, my Lilah is a baby girl …. Daddy is supposed to be there and protect them, love them always be there for them. Master is too .. a solid wall of strength unbreakable, unbending.

To stumble is to invite doubt. To be weak in their eyes is cause for worry and fear. Right?

I want to believe thats not true, but God … do I know?

Recently i’ve lost a number of close friends … well friends that I thought were close … for a variety of reasons … there are two sides to every story and I’m not blaming them, or me … lets say the fault probably lies in all of us. but at the same time my depression likely had something to do with my actions . so … the irony, my depression making my depression worse? .. yep id say so …

I’ve tried my best to repair and fix, but there comes a point you have to stand up and say … what will be will be … it doesn’t mean it hurts any less though.  The point is that it will either take time or opportunity or chance, or a miracle to bring those relationships back … and I cant count on those to happen … so I have to keep slogging through until things improve. So here is the thing … my depression is affecting my life, I’m a strong Dominant … but if I continue my reputation, my image, my life will be questioned and become tarnished. In most cases I really don’t mind, but in the eyes of my submissives that is a huge fear welling up inside me.

I dont see how it can be dom drop … I haven’t been cut off in the middle of a scene … but what if scenes quit playing for a few weeks? what if certain needs quit being met? Even for a short time? I cant find out much on this that doesn’t have to do with immediate Dom drop .. but is it possible?

whats even worse than the fear that my subs will reject me as a dominant is my own fear. what if im too weak to be dominant to them, what if i’m not the man they believe me to be? What if…..

such a simple phrase … the builder of skyscrapers, the mother of invention, the father of greed … the toppler of mountains and empires, destroyer of hope and of the soul.

What if….

So I have a Question to the Doms …. Yes im taking care of it, Yes im being honest with my girls, Yes im strong enough to fight, fix, rebuild … but is this common? do you ever suffer the same? Do you show what may be weakness to your own subs?

Do you ever doubt yourself and whether you are worthy to be in such a position to care for someone you love?

Prometheus

collar-me-daddy:

*giggles* Daddy’s slowly starting to see things more my way though. 💘💗💕🎀

collar-me-daddy:

*giggles*
Daddy’s slowly starting to see things more my way though. 💘💗💕🎀

Good Evening

daddywithoutthed:

Hi,
Just a few quick things to say. First of all, this is my new blog, specifically dedicated to sub/dom play, bdsm culture, etc. I hope I live up to the standard set by most blogs on Tumblr. Secondly, I’m female. Hence the URL title. I’m not a mistress. 

I’m bisexual and female. Being called Daddy is what I like and I hope you enjoy my posts.

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baroniansmythe:

And remember the golden rule… there are assholes in EVERY community who want to hurt people… even the kink community.

baroniansmythe:

And remember the golden rule… there are assholes in EVERY community who want to hurt people… even the kink community.

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